I hope that dylan gives the maid and my MIL an easy time when i am away in Taiwan, so they dont try anytg funny , and then let him get used to it. Hope they are able to read his cues, cause i have been training the maid to read them , especially those of his being tired.His ritual is like this, he will sit in his chair and play and coos to you . Then the eye rubbing part comes, and he becomes a rudolph cause his nose turns red too, then he starts sucking his fists succulently, and gets more and more agitated. Now he calls out for people to carry him , if you dun he starts screaming....so you must pick him up and carry him and lean him against your shoulder, he will quieten down when you pat his back and chant SHH SHH...... if not , pop a pacifier into his mouth , change carrying position and then he will suckle and then rock a little bit and chant SHH SHH.. his eyes will close, but he will protest if overlytired, and might reject pacifier.but you persist with this child , and soon he will be quiet and you immediately put him on the bed and turn him to the side and pat him to sleep with him hugging a bolster. Wow....quite a hefty huh.Well that's spiderpig for you.