So ....it has been days since i wrote , in fact, it has been days since i went online to surf.. and have my daily dose in people's blogs, the superficial and share forums...

i have been busy with baby Dylan and adjusting to a life which does not soley belongs to me anymore. There is a difference between living with the in laws when you are not pregnant , versus, when you are pregnant and versus when you have given birth. If you ask me, i would say the latter is the worse if you have one who listen to alot of what the aunties in the market say.

Baby Dylan has to bathe in Guniess Stout cause even my hubby has agreed to it. They claimed that it helps to " cool " him down.....OH WHATEVER.....

and then when Bb Dylan refused to sleep at night, the C. lady told my mother in law the reason is because he has a lot of poison in his stomy and he has to have some herb bath to expel the poison...WHADDAFUG. and she also says that he refuses to sleep cus i had refused to let her clean Dylan's tongue......another WHAADAFUG. i mean stop putting words in my mouth and be a double headed snake and tell my mother in law rather than telling me straight.

and then , she sorta claims ownership to Dylan, keep offering people to carry him ... and keeps disturbing him ( in front of guest ) to try to make him smile when Dylan is obviously sleeping... ( oh what are you trying to prove) .....You might think i am hyper sensitive here, but unless you become a mother, you will not understand. And so this morning i tactfully reminded her again all the dos and donts, i hope this Lady remembers.....i really made sure i did it in a way so that i din offend her, or was i not assertive enough? we shall see....

sigh....looking after him is really an endless cycle.so ironic, yet i love him so much.